{"id":23561,"date":"2014-10-16T16:55:26","date_gmt":"2014-10-16T20:55:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.unionvilletimes.com\/?p=23561"},"modified":"2014-10-16T16:22:12","modified_gmt":"2014-10-16T20:22:12","slug":"parents-say-yep-to-nope-and-get-life-saving-homework","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.unionvilletimes.com\/?p=23561","title":{"rendered":"Parents say ‘yep to NOPE and get life-saving homework"},"content":{"rendered":"

Anti-Drug program at Unionville High School helps educate parents<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

By Karen Cresta<\/strong>, Correspondent, The Times<\/em><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\"NOPE-291x300\"<\/a>EAST MARLBOROUGH \u2013 Unionville High School hosted the Narcotics Overdose Prevention and Education (NOPE) task force on Wednesday evening.<\/p>\n

It was brought to the school by the district-wide parent network committee, FOCUS (Family Outreach Committee of the Unionville-Chadds Ford School District), which is a part of the Unionville-Chadds Ford Education Foundation. Thanks to them, more than 100 parents were in attendance to hear the NOPE task force deliver their powerful message from several perspectives and to get their homework assignments.<\/p>\n

Critical but simple homework assignments were given.\u00a0 Parents were urged to go home and talk to their kids and to go to their medicine cabinets. Parents need to share their concerns with their child and explain why they are opposed to drug use.<\/p>\n

One of these explanations was defined as “you want your child to live.” \u00a0Now that is an important homework assignment.<\/p>\n

Parents heard from the task force on the effects of drugs and alcohol, a sergeant from the Westown police department who assesses car crash scenes in Chester County, and from a mother who suffered the loss of her teenage son to a drug overdose.\u00a0 The presentation evoked much emotion while dozens of large posters of the deceased stared back from the stage and pictures on the big screen flashed faces of the youth, their names, and their young ages.<\/p>\n

The mission of the task force is \u201cto diminish the frequency and impact of overdose death through community education, family support and purposeful advocacy.\u201d The vision \u2013 \u201cA world free of overdose deaths.\u201d\u00a0 Through vision, parents saw picture after picture and a short film on a big screen of kids who were found dead of overdoses.\u00a0 This was a very harsh approach but a very impactful one. A look around at the audience reinforced the impact of NOPE\u2019s vision.\u00a0 Many were wiping tears away.<\/p>\n

The main messages were delivered with a huge dose of reality \u2013 all these deaths could be avoided.\u00a0 Peers can be the hero by telling someone that their friend uses drugs or alcohol.\u00a0 In fact, students were given that very message in a similar presentation during the school day.\u00a0 Parents can be the communicators by doing their job.\u00a0 They should be on alert at all times by being aware of the signs that their kid is using drugs, combining different drugs, combining drugs with alcohol and knowing the signs of addiction.\u00a0 They should log medications, get rid of expired pills and they should lock up prescribed medication.\u00a0 If prescribed medication by a doctor, each intake of each pill should be monitored by a parent.\u00a0 The issues can be combated by simply taking action.<\/p>\n

Chelsey Price, a prevention coordinator at Holcomb Behavioral Health Systems, encouraged parents to take action and seek help.\u00a0 Beth Mingey, the director of educational services at Holcomb, wanted parents to go one step further and tell family members and neighbors to do the same because if the prescribed drugs or alcohol are \u201cnot there, they can\u2019t get addicted.\u201d\u00a0 The statistics show that 70 percent of teens who abused prescribed drugs, got them from family or friends. She stated that parents are the biggest influence and the most powerful since youths are less likely to use (35-65 percent less likely) if they talk with their parents about drugs and alcohol.<\/p>\n

A mom, Jacquelene Zwaan, told the powerful story of her son, RJ, 17 years old, who was found dead on June 30, 2008, on the living room floor after a night out at a friend\u2019s house.\u00a0 It was a story of a regular teen, a boy scout and member of the Young Marines.\u00a0 He just finished his junior year at Avon Grove High School.\u00a0 His mom had no idea he was taking pills. They were best friends and talked about everything else but \u201cnever talked about that.\u201d For his 18th<\/sup> birthday, she was waiting for his headstone to arrive.\u00a0 She said, \u201cI died the day that RJ did.\u201d<\/p>\n

Sergeant Kennedy, dressed in his police uniform, told the audience he was there tonight for a number of reasons.\u00a0 He was there because he sees the effects of underage drinking as part of his job.\u00a0 (By the way, it\u2019s not just drunk driving, it\u2019s also drug driving.) He said he sees it 50-60 times a year at fatal car crash scenes in Chester County.\u00a0 He is also a recovering alcohol and drug addict of nine years.\u00a0 He stated that kids do drugs and drink alcohol because of peer pressure, to be social, to self-medicate as he did, to mask emotions, and to get through transitional periods of wanting to be grown up. He urged parents not to be the party house when it comes to drinking alcohol.<\/p>\n

He emphasized, \u201cThe answer is no, people.\u00a0 Put it off until they are 21.\u201d \u00a0The brain doesn\u2019t fully mature until the age of 24. \u00a0The number of users who become addicted increases from 9 percent to 17 percent if the kid starts younger.\u00a0 If they drink before the age of 14, they have a 45 percent chance of becoming dependent.\u00a0 He ended by saying, \u201cThe disease of addiction does not discriminate.\u201d And he reminded parents of their homework assignment, \u201cGet in your kids\u2019 lives.\u201d<\/p>\n

Parents who attended the presentation voiced their opinions.\u00a0 One parent stated that they need other parents to be on board and not serve alcohol at parties or host sleep over events that they are clueless about what is going on.\u00a0 Parents were able to tell John Sanville, superintendent of schools, how important it is that the high school students, who missed the presentation due to PSATs, get the same opportunity as the other grades to hear the message of NOPE.\u00a0 Sanville agreed and would look into scheduling it.<\/p>\n

Signs that your child is using include actual physical evidence, changes in eating and sleeping habits, changes in physical appearance or behavior and personality, changes in friends and interests, changes in school or job performance and having a positive attitude towards drugs and alcohol.<\/p>\n

Every day 2,000 teens in the United States will get high for the first time by trying prescription drugs.\u00a0 Pennsylvania is the seventh highest state for overdoses in the country. Overdosing among youths is an epidemic.<\/p>\n

Another homework assignment – get help if needed.\u00a0 The NOPE task force can be reached by phone at 1-866-612-NOPE and on-line at www.nopetaskforce.org<\/a> or www.facebook.com\/nopetaskforce<\/a>.<\/p>\n

NOPE invites affected families, 18 and older, to its support group meetings held monthly and facilitated by a mental health professional.\u00a0 Registered members can attend at no cost.\u00a0 The next meeting is Tues., Oct. 21.\u00a0 Please register by Oct. 18, to dana.rachko@holcombbhs.org<\/p>\n

A candle light vigil to honor those loved and lost through addiction will be held on Thurs., Oct. 23, at 7 p.m., at the Upper Chichester Municipal building, 855 Furey Road.\u00a0 Please go to the website for additional information.<\/p>\n

The Art for Pamela Exhibit and Sale to support the Pamela Stouch Scholarship Award, will be held on Nov. 30, from 1-6 p.m., at the Italian-American Club in Wayne, 301 West Wayne Ave.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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